I stumbled upon this great little community of knitters and bloggers. Since I'm new to blogging and I really need some inspiration, I decided I would join in on the Ten on Tuesday, albeit Friday. However, the Ten are new year's intentions and seeing how it is new year's eve, I thought it would be ok. My inspiration comes from Carole Knits via PoMo Golightly.
So here is my ten:
1. Project 333: Pick out 33 items to make up my wardrobe for the next 3 months. I've been completely in love with quite a number of minimalist blogs lately (more on that in another post) and this is a way to get really involved in a more structured, committed way. Read more about Project 333 here. And many, many thanks to Courtney Carver for creating and sharing this fun project.
2. Get out of credit card debt once and for all this year. I have two credit cards, one on schedule to be paid completely off in March 2011 and the other in November 2011. It isn't going to be easy but I know that we can do it. We have a pretty decent emergency fund at this point so we shouldn't need to use the cards for anything. Many, many thanks to Jason at FrugalDad for all of his inspiration and thoughtful blogging.
3. Related to this, my intention is to save for things that I really want instead of just buying it.
4. Walk 1000 miles: I want to find ways to live the quote "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Lao-tzu (604BC-531BC). I know that this means more than actually walking 1000 miles, and while I want to apply the intention of this quote in many ways this year (such as starting to actually blog), I also want to embody it by actually walking 1000 miles between now and January 1, 2012. It's just under 3 miles a day, everyday.
5. Eat more simple, whole, locally sourced foods and plan my family's meals.
6. Meditate at least 20 minutes a day.
7. Blog. I want to join this global conversation!
8. Have more celebrations. My husband and I bought an at-a-glance year calendar and we've sketched out some dinner parties on a regular basis. I have amazing people in my life and it is hard to find the time to get together. This year, I'd like to be more intentional about it.
9. Continue to simplify. I'd like to continue to give a lot of my stuff away and not accumulate more of it.
10. Take my knitting to the next level. Last year I learned to knit. What a wonderful hobby! I love it. So far I've made many hats, scarves, a pair of mittens, a cowl, and a wrap. I'd like to tackle a sweater.
Happy New Year!
Friday, December 31, 2010
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Peace is not ...
A favorite little story:
There once was a king who offered a prize to the artist who would paint the best picture of peace. Many artists tried. The king looked at all the pictures. But there were only two he really liked, and he had to choose between them.
One picture was of a calm lake. The lake was a perfect mirror for peaceful towering mountains all around it. Overhead was a blue sky with fluffy white clouds. All who saw this picture thought that it was a perfect picture of peace.
The other picture had mountains, too. But these were rugged and bare. Above was an angry sky, from which rain fell and in which lightning played. Down the side of the mountain tumbled a foaming waterfall. This did not look peaceful at all.
But when the king looked closely, he saw behind the waterfall a tiny bush growing in a crack in the rock. In the bush a mother bird had built her nest. There, in the midst of the rush of angry water, sat the mother bird on her nest - in perfect peace.
Which picture do you think won the prize? The king chose the second picture. Do you know why?
"Because," explained the king, "peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart. That is the real meaning of peace."
--- Author Unknown
There once was a king who offered a prize to the artist who would paint the best picture of peace. Many artists tried. The king looked at all the pictures. But there were only two he really liked, and he had to choose between them.
One picture was of a calm lake. The lake was a perfect mirror for peaceful towering mountains all around it. Overhead was a blue sky with fluffy white clouds. All who saw this picture thought that it was a perfect picture of peace.
The other picture had mountains, too. But these were rugged and bare. Above was an angry sky, from which rain fell and in which lightning played. Down the side of the mountain tumbled a foaming waterfall. This did not look peaceful at all.
But when the king looked closely, he saw behind the waterfall a tiny bush growing in a crack in the rock. In the bush a mother bird had built her nest. There, in the midst of the rush of angry water, sat the mother bird on her nest - in perfect peace.
Which picture do you think won the prize? The king chose the second picture. Do you know why?
"Because," explained the king, "peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart. That is the real meaning of peace."
--- Author Unknown
Project 333
I can't get enough of these minimalist blogs (tee hee). I'm up for the challenge of Project 333. Here is my working list of clothes:
Necklace
Brown Down Winter Coat
Green mittens
Scarf ?
Black boots (Uggs)
Black Dansko clogs
Black Dansko Mary Janes
Red Heels (to be bought)
Gray pinstripe pants
Light gray pants
Black pants (need hemming)
Charcoal flannel jeans
Dark brown cords (needs hemming)
Light jeans
Jean skirt
Red pashima
Cream cowl sweater
Purple sweater
Green sweater
Gray sweater
Black wool sweater
Black wool cardigan
Brown sweater vest
Thin black cardigan
Black cardigan, thick with zipper
Gray thin cardigan
Gray 3/4 sleeve tee
Black 3/4 sleeve tee
Silk long sleeve black tee/sweater
Green 3/4 sleeve tee
White long sleeve tee
White short sleeve tee
Blue stripe button down
Pink long sleeve shirt with lace arms
White button down (to be bought)
Necklace
Brown Down Winter Coat
Green mittens
Scarf ?
Black boots (Uggs)
Black Dansko clogs
Black Dansko Mary Janes
Red Heels (to be bought)
Gray pinstripe pants
Light gray pants
Black pants (need hemming)
Charcoal flannel jeans
Dark brown cords (needs hemming)
Light jeans
Jean skirt
Red pashima
Cream cowl sweater
Purple sweater
Green sweater
Gray sweater
Black wool sweater
Black wool cardigan
Brown sweater vest
Thin black cardigan
Black cardigan, thick with zipper
Gray thin cardigan
Gray 3/4 sleeve tee
Black 3/4 sleeve tee
Silk long sleeve black tee/sweater
Green 3/4 sleeve tee
White long sleeve tee
White short sleeve tee
Blue stripe button down
Pink long sleeve shirt with lace arms
White button down (to be bought)
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
When the student is ready ...
Have you ever heard the expression, "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear"? I think I used to relate to this saying in a very direct way, and kept looking for a teacher to show up in person form. Last week though, I had a different experience with this saying. My mindfulness practice has helped me to be more patient with life and let life "speak" to me in new ways. One of the main teachings is to accept life on its terms instead of fighting with it so much, or spending a lot of time and energy wanting, wishing, DEMANDING that it be different. Instead, we cultivate a warm curiosity about life and the countless energies in it and in us. So anyway, I saw something a bit different. The details really don't matter, my point is that I saw something new in life, and I realized that life itself really is the teacher and it is only when I am ready to experience what seems like the same-old, same-old in a new way am I, as the student, ready to see and experience it.
Thank you, life, and all the countless energies in it. My master teachers.
Thank you, life, and all the countless energies in it. My master teachers.
Friday, April 23, 2010
Ocean of dharma quote of the week
OVERCOMING GUILT
Guilt is not fundamentally healthy, because it has the quality of condemning whatever happens and not seeing the inspiration or positive aspect in things. Often a guilty conscience comes from self-hatred, constantly condemning oneself. The only way to overcome guilt is by seeing that there is nobody to blame for the chaos or the difficulties in life. Chaotic situations are not punishment, but they are steppingstones. Then you can see the positive within the negative.
>From "Family Karma," Chapter Eleven in Work, Sex, and Money: Real Life on the Path of Mindfulness, forthcoming in 2011 from Shambhala Publications. Edited by Carolyn Rose Gimian and Sherab Chodzin Kohn.
Guilt is not fundamentally healthy, because it has the quality of condemning whatever happens and not seeing the inspiration or positive aspect in things. Often a guilty conscience comes from self-hatred, constantly condemning oneself. The only way to overcome guilt is by seeing that there is nobody to blame for the chaos or the difficulties in life. Chaotic situations are not punishment, but they are steppingstones. Then you can see the positive within the negative.
>From "Family Karma," Chapter Eleven in Work, Sex, and Money: Real Life on the Path of Mindfulness, forthcoming in 2011 from Shambhala Publications. Edited by Carolyn Rose Gimian and Sherab Chodzin Kohn.
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Gratitude
I love my dog. She is my first kid, really. She is a huge, gentle beastie. She guards us and keeps us safe. And she loves us in the soulful-eyed, undying way that a dog can. She has taught me a lot about being a Bodhisattva, being present, unconditional, when to wag and when to bark and how much we don't always need words to be connected. I am so grateful that she is sharing her life with me.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Cosleeping - 8 3/4 months
We cosleep with the little monkey. All in all, I love it. My husband and I get creative about our time together and nothing in the world compares to the little one's cherubic face in the morning. We've evolved over the last 8 months - first using a snuggle nest (he was so tiny I was afraid of rolling over on him!), then putting the mattress on the floor (long before he could roll, I wanted to be ready). Now he is almost crawling and I'm not ready to leave him unattended in the room off the bed AND it would be nice to get a little more sleep. I think we wake each other up a lot - I like to shift around a bit and he cries out in his sleep sometimes and I respond when I don't have to because he falls back to sleep without me. And he really doesn't need to breastfeed all night long any more. So, I put the cosleeper back in the bedroom, next to the bed, as a playard. We played in it (well, he was in it, I was outside it) today - playing peek-a-boo and I think he seemed to understand that it was HIS space, and I think that he might have even liked it a bit. He laughed and played and seemed content to coo in it for a while. And tonight he is sleeping in it - so far, so good. Wish us luck!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Tired of Speaking Sweetly ~ Hafiz
Love wants to reach out and manhandle us,
Break all our teacup talk of God.
If you had the courage and
Could give the Beloved His choice, some nights,
He would just drag you around the room
By your hair,
Ripping from your grip all those toys in the world
That bring you no joy.
Love sometimes gets tired of speaking sweetly
And wants to rip to shreds
All your erroneous notions of truth
That make you fight within yourself, dear one,
And with others,
Causing the world to weep
On too many fine days.
God wants to manhandle us,
Lock us inside of a tiny room with Himself
And practice His dropkick.
The Beloved sometimes wants
To do us a great favor:
Hold us upside down
And shake all the nonsense out.
But when we hear
He is in such a "playful drunken mood"
Most everyone I know
Quickly packs their bags and hightails it
Out of town.
From: 'The Gift'
Translated by Daniel Ladinsky
Baby Steps
I had a work meeting this morning. Little Monkey spent the morning with his dad while I was getting ready. I wanted to cuddle with him to say good bye and he made it clear that he was having LOTS of fun with Daddy and clearly wanted him. This is a beautiful thing. I left the house feeling freer to leave than at any point in the last 8 and a half months. Guilt-free even!
My work meeting went well. During the meditation led by a very skilled and spiritually in-tune man, I had a felt sense of my Buddha nature. He led us in a meditation with left hand palm down on the earth and right hand palm up in offering while talking about Buddha sitting under the bohdi tree in his quest for understanding. He invoked gratitude, asking forgiveness, and metta for all living things.
My work meeting went well. During the meditation led by a very skilled and spiritually in-tune man, I had a felt sense of my Buddha nature. He led us in a meditation with left hand palm down on the earth and right hand palm up in offering while talking about Buddha sitting under the bohdi tree in his quest for understanding. He invoked gratitude, asking forgiveness, and metta for all living things.
Shoulda Coulda Woulda
I'm pumping right now - and I'm thinking, I should've blogged while pumping this entire time - I'd have at least a million posts give the bajillion times i've pumped since little monkey was born! So here I am, at my second post, second day and I'm "shoulding" all over the place. Deep breath ~ why is it so hard to just be where I am?
What if there were no shoulds, just what is and what i want to do with it?
What if there were no shoulds, just what is and what i want to do with it?
Saturday, April 17, 2010
beginnings ...
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